The Wooden Bowl
A frail old man went to live with his son, daughter-in-law,
and a four-year old grandson. The old man's hands trembled, his eyesight was
blurred, and his step faltered. The family ate together nightly at the dinner
table. But the elderly grandfather's shaky hands and failing sight made eating
rather difficult. Peas rolled off his spoon onto the floor. When he grasped the
glass often milk spilled on the tablecloth. The son and daughter-in-law became
irritated with the mess. "We must do something about grandfather,"
said the son. I've had enough of his spilled milk, noisy eating, and food on
the floor. So the husband and wife set a small table in the corner. There,
grandfather ate alone while the rest of the family enjoyed dinner at the dinner
table. Since grandfather had broken a dish or two, his food was served in a
wooden bowl. Sometimes when the family glanced in grandfather's direction, he
had a tear in his eye as he ate alone. Still, the only words the couple had for
him were sharp admonitions when he dropped a fork or spilled food. The
four-year-old watched it all in silence.
One evening before supper, the father noticed his son
playing with wood scraps on the floor. He asked the child sweetly, "What
are you making?" Just as sweetly, the boy responded, "Oh, I am making
a little bowl for you and mama to eat your food from when I grow up." The
four-year-old smiled and went back to work. The words so struck the parents
that they were speechless. Then tears started to stream down their cheeks.
Though no word was spoken, both knew what must be done. That evening the
husband took grandfather's hand and gently led him back to the family table.
For the remainder of his days he ate every meal with the
family. And for some reason, neither husband nor wife seemed to care any longer
when a fork was dropped, milk spilled, or the tablecloth soiled. Children are
remarkably perceptive. Their eyes ever observe, their ears ever listen, and
their minds ever process the messages they absorb. If they see us patiently
provide a happy home atmosphere for family members, they will imitate that
attitude for the rest of their lives. The wise parent realizes that every day
that building blocks are being laid for the child's future.
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